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Revisiting Orwell: Schoolspeak
2008-04-17 00:03:47
The latest development in my state reminds me of the entire class staying back after school due to one student acting up. For some strange reason certain educational representatives think that teaching about homophobia means banning words like girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, wife and spouse. If only it were a joke. Apparently all the above mentioned terms are to be replaced by one generic term: ‘partner’. Is this really fair, and how many parents are going to be peeved about this absurd form of political correctness? What does banning words have to do with homophobia? Why can’t children of same sex couples just say my two mums or my dads. So what? And what happens when children real aloud and come across the terms mum, dad, girlfriend and boyfriend, or do authors have to comply to this stupid political correctness as well in order to appease the few people who think... ...

Dirty Laundry
2008-04-16 18:15:00
I think cheating is boring due to the same old, same old excuses that are given when people are busted in the act. The excuses and reasons are laughable and the most common are: 1. I made a mistake (yep, amalgamating genitals takes time and planning). 2. It just happened (so does spontaneous human combustion). 3. I’ll make it all up to you. I’ve only seen one Cheaters show, but I think that if one watches all eight seasons one will know the usual excuses/reasons/justifications by heart. I don’t know what it is about this show that makes compulsive viewing. Maybe it is the knowledge that people are going to be caught in the act, which is something ordinary people seldom see. Most spouses or partners don’t catch their erring partners in the act. They’ll hear about it from friends or arrive to the conclusion via secondary information (phone call... ...

The First Phase
2008-04-16 16:45:42
I have started the process and sometimes I pray and hope that all will go smooth. I tend to hope, pray and hope a little more when anything technical is involved. The new server has been chosen, and I have set up a new account. I have downloaded the site template that I need, and all I need to do now is to update the DNS settings of the current magazine domain. Seems like a quick and easy process, no? It isn’t…well it is. That part is the easy bit. The rest requires a little more time. Content needs to be transferred across and uploaded to a content management system. I’m thinking it will take two weeks. I will be working against clocks over the upcoming week to transfer four months of content in Lucrezia Magazine to the new content management system on the new host. Today, I updated all... ...

The Tube
2008-04-16 16:05:00
I have become a late night television viewer. Yep that’s my sordid confession. How has this come about? It all began with the Zoloft, then again it could have begun with my toxic workplace which led to the stress, that led to the Zoloft. My days contain weird phases. There is the wake up phase that sees me hop out of bed in the morning. I’ll switch on the electric kettle, switch the television (that housemate has left running) off (so I don’t have to watch Karl and Lisa on the Morning Show), and pop my Zoloft. At 11am I’ll enter the yawning phase, courtesy Zoloft. I’m not sleepy or tired, the yawning is a side effect that may come in handy in workplaces or at boring meetings when you feel like saying, ‘can you move along to your next point because this Powerpoint presentation makes bat shit a riveting... ...

Money Does Bring Happiness
2008-04-16 09:41:40
Money, money, money. It is often associated with words like root and evil, but it is the love of money that is associated with evil, and not the money, and this poses a problem for me because it’s not like I hate money. I do love it for everything it provides; the brief happiness that arrives with the knowledge that one can breathe and feel freer to pursue something (that requires funds) is something that is real. This afternoon I felt elation. I received a much needed financial boost in my bank balance. It isn’t an outlandish celebrity style boost, it’s simpler and yes, I felt happy because I will be able to do the following things within the next fortnight: Shift Lucrezia Magazine to a new server. Purchase the spiffy and happening web template, I have been eyeing for weeks, to use on a content management system. Make plans... ...

When Celebrity Couples Talk Sex...
2008-04-16 09:29:00
You watch Big Brother, or any reality show, and you frequently hear the usual excuse of it being ‘easy to forget the cameras are there.’ Reality TV couples are often the most tackiest couples. From Jessica Simpson and her hubby, to the current wave in Peter Andre and Katie Price (aka Jordan). Thing is, they claim to be sexy, trendy and popular, but these reality shows about their relationships do the opposite: dysfunction, ineptness, superficiality and overall narcissism is the order of the reality TV couple’s day. Jordan and Peter are so talented that they need to have a reality show, and the most recent controversy about it is the sex. Has Jessica Simpson done anything apart from feature in headlines about her post divorce relationships and her body? Katie Price reveals the monotony of fame or the demands of fame, possibly contradicting the ‘fantastic sex life’. She can’t fit... ...

From Sex Symbol to Harridan
2008-04-16 06:07:59
America has sex symbols like Marilyn Monroe and Bettie Page, women who have an aura of eternal allure, who are paid tribute decades after their death or hey day. Each nation has its female goddess/es, and France is renowned for its female icons. Brigitte Bardot stopped traffic in her hey day, and had difficulty negotiating a simple Parisian street. Paparazzi would pursue her like a hunting party, and this was before Princess Diana or Britney Spears. It’s only when female sex symbols transcend their film popularity and/or beauty status, and shed the outer layer - to reveal their feelings- that they create controversy. Whether due to their naïveté or ignorance, they tend to step on toes. Jane Fonda created controversy during the Vietnam War. She’ll forever be known as Hanoi Jane in some circles, but at her current age, she doesn’t really mince words. She is no longer the doe-eyed... ...

Harassment of the Sexual Kind
2008-04-16 05:28:35
The world of sexual harassment is one that dances around ethics, human conduct and personal integrity. The allegation can be something that is true or false, like most allegations, and proof is often required to make the allegation adhere. The title of this post isn't the most creative, but the term sexual harassment can be a blurry term. The 'sexual' part of the term can refer to sexual advances, a playful slap on the butt, or sexist comments; sexual can refer to gender discrimination or sexual advances. The celebrity realm has been hit by yet another sexual harassment claim this week that involves Rob and Sheryl Lowe. The current claims made by a former nanny make the Lowe sex tape look like a tame sex documentary. How will the celebrity couple fare with these claims? It's anyone's guess, but the usual path - the out of court settlement - will... ...

The Corporate Blah
2008-04-15 08:45:06
I finally emerged, after a three hour meeting of the usual work related issues that I had to go over once again. Every time someone new is appointed to investigate, I have to answer questions and give examples. One thing I have learned, irrespective of how the workplace is romanticized (‘office sex’ ‘office relationships’ or whatever other bullshit), the workplace is the least romantic place, and it can sometimes be the place with the least amount of trust. For example, tell anyone that you find someone cute, and you may find yourself at the receiving end of vicious gossip. The minor comment will be expanded to include other fiction such as how you’d like to date the person, and it can even be turned into the Goodyear blimp of ‘there is something definitely going on between them.’ In respect to my workplace, I learned that no one is really worthy... ...

The Person You Think You Know
2008-04-14 18:24:05
One of the best ways to assess your progress is by catching up with a person you haven’t seen for a while and realizing that when they ask you ‘what’s up?’ you struggle for something that is remotely adventurous or career-worthy. I was completely dry over the weekend. Sunday eve saw me get together with a person, and when the subject of work came up, it was disastrous. There was I, a complete and utter corporate klutz with no real aspirations to climb the corporate latter that is dotted with vampires, sycophants and dumb fucks, and I was seated opposite Miss Successful. She is one of those people who are freakishly organized and ultimately fulfill their adult list of things to do, conquer, and achieve (including taking out a mortgage). The only difference between us is that I can pluck out a conversation point out of nowhere whereas she’ll be... ...

An Erotic Short Story by Moi
2008-04-14 14:55:22
The story isn't here. It is here. It is the first erotica story I have had published on a site for quite a few months. Eight or nine? I don't remember exactly, and thank you to the gals at Oysters and Chocolate for making that a reality for me. ...

When Women Go Nuts for Cock
2008-04-14 06:58:09
There are many reasons why I don’t like adultery and/or adulterers. It isn’t about the lies, the betrayals or the fact that they enter this fleeing narcissistic dimension that paints everything in the light of sexual bias, but more about the lunacy that can occur. Yes lunacy. At one point I was friends with a female who happened (I found out much later) to have a thing going with a married male friend of mine. In time, she would constantly call me to interrogate me on just about everything from the type of mood he was in, what he talked about and what he wore. I'm talking bunny boiler stuff. When things went pear shaped for her (or she reached her mistress use-by date), things got ugly. One afternoon as I was at home (with her) having - what I thought was a social coffee - she received a text... ...

Must Be Something in the Water...
2008-04-14 01:15:00
My bullshit Evian water bottle was revealed this morning, and sure I'd like to say that the mother-child relationship is solid and constructed on loyalty and all that jazz, but this wasn't the case. My son dobbed me in! "It was slack mum. You can't hide something like that you know," my son said. "It's not like I put cyanide in the bottle. It was tap water." "But still..." "But still nothing, now we're back to buying bottles of designer water, and for what? Just so we say we drink bottled aqua that is transplanted from some concrete water tank?" Housemate flicked through the Daily Telegraph and gave me filthies. "You drank it," I said, noting the minor tremor in his lower lip. "No I didn't," he said, pursing his lips. "Oh yeah you did...and it wasn't different was it?" "I didn't drink it." He then gave me the look... ...

The Week
2008-04-13 17:38:00
This week will see the third round of office bullshit for me. Another attempt at negotiation will occur and I can’t say I’m looking forward to it much. It’s like seeing a dud boyfriend and explaining oneself repeatedly: “You behaved badly, don’t deny it,” and sit there listening to the rebuffs. I can’t believe that it’s almost the middle of April. My little work caper has taken a long time. It took up my time last month, and I think this month will include more of the same. I think I pissed off the external work consultant assigned to ‘my case,’ but I found her to be a little condescending with her, ‘well sometimes you don’t have a choice,’ attitude. I haven’t heard from her since my last communiqué when I kind of told her to grow some common sense, and that her methods of railroading weren’t impressing me much;... ...

"What's Your Name? I Love You!"
2008-04-13 14:48:23
Imagine a world without drugs. It would be weird, and I'm not just talking about prescription drugs, I'm talking about the euphoric hormones produced in the human body as well that act like some drugs to relieve pain, such as endorphins. The first clip is from an actual ad for Zoloft. We don't have drug TV commercials here in Australia. It's probably illegal (I'm not sure, I haven't looked it up, but there are no drug commercials on TV apart from those for paracetamol and over the counter cold & flu concoctions that never work). The second ad is a parody of the Zoloft commercial and it's hilarious. ...

Showbiz Shenanigans
2008-04-13 10:24:00
You’d never think you’d see a female professional (agent) on television go into drama queen overload on national television and tell a fifteen year old contestant, "Visually, I get that you're beautiful. When you put all the other stuff on, you're a slut,’ and this was what Hollywood agent Marki Costello did. Okay she didn't actually say this to the fifteen year old, but what do you think the fifteen year old will think when she watches the show on television? The contestant wasn’t wearing a garter belt, and she didn’t wear a revealing bra. She wore sequined shorts and a top that didn’t even reveal cleavage. Then again, you can see that in this here video below and judge for yourself. The show's people justify their show by saying that harsh critiques are only uttered to the parents, but how would any parent feel if they were told that... ...

Ramsay Flambé
2008-04-13 08:05:42
The Australian senate doesn't like Gordon Ramsay. Shit, they don't like anything that contravenes their idea of proper swear-free behavior, but anyone who has worked in a restaurant or restaurant kitchen knows that there is no such thing as rounded vowels and intellectual discussions in kitchens. It's about getting food out with minimal chaos (and no food poisoning), excellent presentation and fresh ingredients, and if screw ups occur, a quick 'fucking hell, hurry up,' suffices. There often is no time to sit a person down and pat them on the back and be Dr Phil. It doesn't work that way because it's an all or nothing affair: shit food is shit food, and one taste or glimpse of shit food is enough to turn a customer off - permanently. From all the ten or so jobs I've had, my two years in kitchens were the most freakish, emotionally demanding and... ...

Everyday Fantasies
2008-04-13 01:13:00
I think that if I thought of the water substitute I could have eradicated the unnecessary supermarket arguments that arose. Watching housemate guzzle down more water (the bullshit Evian) made me recall moments when I have thought that being outrightly vocal (and vehement) in relationships brought about little change. There are times when all the diva tantrums, scientific data and evidence, do little. Why? People love fantasies. A fantasy or a preconceived notion is like cocaine. Those who opt for the easy hit prefer it because it requires less work (thought, input, investment, resources, time, energy, reading, etc), and it's much like watching a staunch undergrad environmentalist (who majors in a non environmental subject) at a protest stutter as they try to recall statistical data that they know they haven't read in any great detail. Even though what I'm about to say may upset a few folks, the fact remains,... ...

Tosser of the Week
2008-04-12 20:15:05
I created a new category today. It's titled 'tossers' and it was inspired by a post I read in Celebitchy about The Donald. I may not know what it's like being a billionaire with a pompadour-ish hairdo, but I do know what it's like being the parent of a teenage son. If a woman doesn't look like a Miss Universe pageant contender, then Donald doesn't like it. If that women points out his transgressions, then that woman is a 'pig' and this man has a bee in his comb over. Now what made Donald a matinee idol? If he didn't have all the cash he has he'd be holding the Guinness Book record for sexual dry spells with the personality that he displays. It's one thing to disagree on points, and express those points but to brand a mother (Rosie O'Donnell) abusive to the media is spineless, low and misogynistic.... ...

Celebrity Cock
2008-04-12 07:01:54
I didn't know how to categorize this post: Body or Celebrity cock? Decisions, decisions... I do like to think I'm up to the minute, as most writers/internet people do, but alas it has taken me considerable time to find this little treasure of a blog: Full Frontal Friday. Dare I say that it certainly is more exciting (and artsy) than 'cockblogging Wednesday?' I found the Full Frontal Friday blog via Crazy Days and Nights. The full frontal blog is like Pringles: once you pop you can't stop. Once you're in, you can't help but go nuts clicking on the treasure trove of celebrity cock. ~~ Image: Full Frontal Friday. I'm not telling you who. You have to find the celebrity in the Full Frontal Friday blog. ...

Les Toilettes de Club
2008-04-12 06:23:12
All I know is that when one has a high profile simple things become impossible. Do anything - adjust your undies, pick a nose - and it ends up on some tabloid or website. It doesn’t even have to end up on a tabloid. Pictures can also appear in high end newspapers. The club toilet is amazing. What is the allure of a club or pub loo? A loo has many things, such as colonies of E.Coli. You never know who has sat on the toilet seat before you, so you don’t sit on the toilet seat. A club toilet is so intimate that pushing the door puts you in contact with a zillion people before you. And no, I’m not a hygiene freak like Howard Hughes was, but my mind boggles. Why do high profile people place themselves in risqué situations in club/pub toilets? It is like the cheap... ...

Just Because....
2008-04-12 00:26:00
Many of the women in my neck of the woods tend to work in the conventional jobs. They are in offices, adhere to one path, and seek the ultimate fulfillment: marriage, children, mortgage and on it goes. If the women are Greek, multiply the previous by an exponential and you get the picture: I sometimes stand out like a sore thumb within my local community and most recently I have been copping some quizzical gazes after I’ve handed out my card. The females I know don’t speak about sex, they don’t explore the erotic in an explicit sense and they certainly don’t write about it, or publish anything remotely associated with sex, but they do read it, they do use sex toys, they suck their boyfriends’ dicks, and they sure as hell aim to get some action - they just wear a mask and act all prissy. What is more... ...

Bigger isn't Better for Men
2008-04-11 16:07:00
Men are confident about their bodies and women arenâ€™t. All these studies, where is the time? Iâ€™m amazed I keep up, even though I lose track of when, where and which topic. Yet another new study has come to light and it is one that states Australian men have difficulty recognizing extra kilograms, but I think that the results could be replicated all over the world because guys arenâ€™t pressured to fit into teeny tiny jeans, have boob jobs or go on relentless diets. The majority of Jenny Craig spokespeople are females. The average weight loss counselor at Weight Watchers is almost always female, and it is easy for women to freak out about the extra kilogram and notice it. Dare I say there are also women who imagine extra kilograms? Iâ€™ve lost count of the times Iâ€™ve seen male friends rub their extra tire like it is Mt Everest,... ...

Sex is All in the Eyes
2008-04-11 11:47:03
Although I don't have time to sift through my posts, I do recall mentioning the sex look and how it is quite simple to detect. If a person gives you the look more than once, you should have more chances at breaking the ice, picking up or scoring. Now the female gaze has taken an additional step and a lot of evolutionary babble is making the rounds once again after yet another survey that required men to look at pictures of women. One night stand or serious relationship? Apparently a man can tell the difference by the gaze a woman gives. Is this weird or is it something that we have all known deep down since the dawn of time? The latest attraction survey from the University of Durham reinforces the evolutionary traits between the genders, or reinforces traits that have been mentioned by most biological/evolutionary psychologists and/or anthropologists. According... ...

Be a Celebrity's Best Friend - Apply Within
2008-04-11 11:32:28
It's true. There are auditions taking place to find a new best friend for Paris Hilton. It's no wonder Hollywood is called La-La Land. Of the audition: "There were girls wearing matching pastel prom dresses with Swarovski crystal pendants and updos, ghetto-fabulous girls and two goth-inspired girls with bleach blonde hair, pale makeup, eyelash extensions and leather clothing." Is Swarovski a cheaper substitute for diamonds? ...

The Wilderness
2008-04-11 08:46:00
It was a near shambles. I blurted out things like a frustrated little girl. I told my therapist about the latest event in my life. â€œShe is a psycho.â€ â€œWhat makes you say that?â€ And he had to sit there through a brief - twenty minutes - account of the nuts and bolts. I even threw in a controversial word. â€œHow did that (her promiscuity) bother you?â€ â€œSheâ€™d justify her behaviorâ€¦In short? No female friend could introduce her boyfriend to her.â€ He raised his eyebrows and cocked his head to one side. â€œIt bothered me when Iâ€™d see her actions hurting others and thenâ€¦then I found out about all the things she did to me behind my back. What did I do for her to kind of re-enter my life just like that?â€ I stared at him, waiting for some definite answer, which is incredibly silly really. There are no... ...

Is Thin Sexy?
2008-04-11 03:46:52
When a small portion of fashion designers step away from the controversy over anorexia and extreme thinness, they step away from answering questions relating to the choices they make. Such choices often appear in magazines, flaunting the latest season, and a portion of those models are raised on a pedestal to become spokespeople for standards of attractiveness. It is a vicious circle. Is extreme skeletal leanness sexy or attractive? France has decided to take a proactive stance against imagery that promotes thinness by proposing a bill in government. The French fashion industry has now signed a charter, and it is about time it did put its money where its mouth is after years of designers sidestepping the role they play in promoting skeletal body forms. The new anorexia law may see websites and designers prosecuted for promoting imagery. What has created a lot of hot debate in recent years are... ...

Bruni's Boobs are Criminals: Democracy & Boobs
2008-04-11 03:09:58
As the owner of a pair of boobs myself, I can definitely guarantee that my boobs aren't uncouth or rude. They don't swear, and although they sometimes prefer the discreet covering of a brassiere over them as I negotiate the dairy aisle at the supermarket, it is not as they they require the black bar of anonymity that is used for criminals pending trials. You can guess the thoughts that went through my head as I read the article about the sale of Carla Bruni's nude portrait in the Sydney Morning Herald. At first, I thought 'oh no, we've become like the US now, blurring and covering boobs up' and then I thought 'd'oh, like we don't know that there are a pair of boobs behind that black line.' Then I asked myself how uptight certain societies are about boobs. One would expect the black line of censorship in an... ...

Clipped
2008-04-11 01:13:00
I wake, negotiate bathroom space with my cat. He sneaks into the shower recess, and I gaze at the skylight as my butt meets the cool seat. It is in my dazed state that I almost turn on the faucets in the shower -with my bed gear on. My brain hasnâ€™t caught up to the moment; my agenda for the day is in motion, replicating like a nascent DNA strand, and all I want to do is sit in a corner and think. But first, Iâ€™d like to take the phone line out of its socket, toss my cell phone over the balcony and simply wile away my time in a slothful state - even if it is against my nature. Eradicating the events of yesterday is difficult and I find I argue with myself and rotate between using the terms â€˜whorebagâ€™ and â€˜bitchâ€™ for my nemesis, and realize that... ...

Single White Female
2008-04-10 13:59:43
There are many things I can say about this evening. I felt like Al Pacino’s one liner in Godfather III (‘Just when I think I’m out, they drag me back in’), then I thought God had to be pissing his Y Fronts giggling at me. I cursed the universe, and I wanted to punch everything in the living room. My question probably goes out to all women stopping by here, and it can include men, but has anyone experienced the Jennifer Leigh type character in Single White Female in real life? She is the type who sabotages you behind your back, who will go to great lengths to be your BFF while morphing into millions of personalities behind your back to drag you in shit that is preposterous, frustrating and draining. It happened to me a few years ago, more than seven years ago, when I first ventured online. The... ...

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